Here are simple 6 relationship facts you need to know when married with kids and especially if you are divorced!
1.If you find yourself always putting your kids first then this is for you ,even when you ain’t in a relationship you need to understand that you as a person is the most important in your home 🏡
2.If you don’t think you deserve a life how do you hope to impact self love and confidence in your children ? Your strength teaches them how to be strong .
3.Your children need stability and that means you must show that even though you absolutely love them ,you are not in love with them ,you are in love with your partner because he/she is the one you sleep with at the end of each day .
4.Always running off to their every needs, demands and whining only create paranoid and drama filled kids .Don’t get me wrong love them, they are a very important and integral part of your life ,this does not in anyway mean you don’t love your children but you must create a strong ..stable ground for your home to be happy . You are the leader of the pack show it …
5.If you can’t put the person you are in a relationship with first , then hey it simply means you are not in love or you are not yet ready for love or you are tired of the one you are already in .
6. This may seem like an extreme view and fact but think about people who have happy marriages , they always have a strong loving relationship where they put each other first …follow their example .
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Congratulations to the G.O.A.T. Serena Williams . She is 5 months pregnant.
Yes Serena strategically announced it on snapchat with a selfie of her in front of a mirror a few days ago …even though she deleted it after a few minutes ,if you haven’t heard or read about it already here it is …wow
Judging by this picture it means she was approximately 8 weeks pregnant when she won the Australian Open championship against her sister Venus Williams ….
Wow is she the greatest or what?
Well if you ever doubt yourself then remember Serena Williams said: “You just have to prove to yourself that you can go out there and be the best that you can be and not prove anything to anyone.”
Congratulations to the greatest of all times Serena Williams .
Famine had now been declared in South Sudan,Somalia ,Ethiopia and Kenya 🇰🇪 the UN says 20 million people ,mostly children are in desperate need for food as the crisis continue to rise .
The danger in a situation like this where famine occurs will mostly be for children most especially girl child’s , who are in danger of been trafficked, raped or married off to pedophiles just to provide money for food for their family’s.
According to a UN report ,this is the first time famine has been declared in 6 years in any part of the world and the worst case since 1945 .., millions of people are in danger of malnutrition and starving to death and are in desperate need for food and medical attentions.
It hasn’t rained for two years in Somalia 🇸🇴 so it’s not a question of a lazy people .When drought occur crops fail and hunger sets in.
Please donate any amount you can to this cause to help save life’s .Click the link below to help .
East Africa Food crisis Appeal
Nollywood actress and bad girl Tonte Dike celebrates her son’s first Birthday .
The happy mum couldn’t stop gushing about her baby boy . Here’s some pictures she posted in honor of her little King .
Happy birthday little angel ..we celebrate with you @Tontolet .
Congratulations to another true phenomenal woman Maryam Mirzakhani who has just won the Nobel Prize for Mathematics. First woman to win this award in Mathematics since it was first established in 1936 . This makes her the smartest woman in the world . She is from Iran. Under the current ban by the crazy 46th president of the United State of America Donald Trump .I wonder if she will be allowed to continue to live in the US ??? Maryam is a professor in Stanford university and have worked really hard for all her achievements.
In an interview with Stanford News this is what she had to say ..
“This is a great honor. I will be happy if it encourages young female scientists and mathematicians. I am sure there will be many more women winning this kind of award in coming years. I think it’s rarely about what you actually learn in class … it’s mostly about things that you stay motivated to go and continue to do on your own.”
Wonders shall never seize ! So police command in Lagos state ordered the arrest of popular 30 year old Night club owner Mike Eze-Nwalie Nwogu, AKA Pretty Mike , after he arrived a wedding ceremony with two young lady’s elegantly dressed but chained with dog chains to their necks.Seriously Nigerian 👮 you are all so full of crab . Why haven’t you arrested all the rapist , all them northern governors,emirs marrying underaged children , wife and girlfriend beaters ???
These girls were chained because they wanted to be chained and most probably for money unless ofcuz there’s more to this story . I mean look at the way they posing ,feeling cool with themselves ..Did the girls complain to you #NigerianPolice.
Many women have been driven away from Police stations just for complaining they are been violated by husbands and boyfriends and all you say is they deserve it .Ehhhh these ones na only them waka come yet una arrest .
Yes it’s dehumanizing but these young people agreed to it , they were not forced . I would like to see an interview with the girls involved to hear their own side of these bizarre story .
Pretty Mike was released by the police after pledging the following .
The undertaking read in part: “I, Mike Eze Nwalie, A.K.A Pretty Mike, of 21A, Magodo GRA, Luma Street, do hereby undertake to stop whatever act of putting girls on a leash or any other degrading treatment to ladies and guys. “I am aware that such act offends the law of the State of Lagos and if I repeat it again, there will be legal act towards me. “I undertake to issue a letter of apology to the public effective from tomorrow on all my social media platforms.”
Okay wonderful now let the commissioner renew the law on women abuse and rape .
#priorities #nigerianpolice #wearestillhere #moneyistherootofallmaddness
When a man really does love you , he makes you his priority, he listens to you when you speak . He always support and respect you, when changes need to be made he doesn’t force it instead he is considerate and consults with you on how best to make a change .He apologizes when the need arises. He keeps in touch during the day and expresses how he does feel about you.He is never embarrassed to show you off nor is he ever embarrassed to hold your hands and kiss you in public .His problems are yours and your problems are his problem . He never laughs at you but with you…and most of all he finds time to be with you ..
Nothing in life is worth fighting for. Your best clothes is someone’s rag, your account balance is someone’s donation at a function, your girl friend,boy friend or fiancé,fiancée is someone’s Ex. Every single prostitute you see in a hotel or on the street at night was at some point in time a virgin. So what is the fights and gossips about really ? Life is too short and no matter how bigger and better you feel you are than others ,we will all end up 6 feet under ! One day it will be our turn ! Don’t be a hater , a user or a bragger . Instead let us use our platforms no matter how small or unpopular to encourage and inspire each other one person at a time .
Wake up don’t be a bench warmer or stalker be active !
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#wearestillhere #EbonyOnyx #dream #inspire #morningvibes