Category Archives: Inspirationalvibes

Maryam Mirzakhani wins Nobel Prize for Mathematics . 

Congratulations to another true phenomenal woman Maryam Mirzakhani who has just won the Nobel Prize for Mathematics. First woman to win this award in Mathematics since it was first established in 1936 . This makes her the smartest woman in the world . She is from Iran. Under the current ban by the crazy 46th president of the United State of America Donald Trump .I wonder if she will be allowed to continue to live in the US ??? Maryam is a professor in Stanford university and have worked really hard for all her achievements.  

In an interview with Stanford News this is what she had to say ..

“This is a great honor. I will be happy if it encourages young female scientists and mathematicians. I am sure there will be many more women winning this kind of award in coming years. I think it’s rarely about what you actually learn in class … it’s mostly about things that you stay motivated to go and continue to do on your own.”

The three kinds of people who exist in this world .

In this world there exist three major kinds of people. LEADERS. Those who are ready and willing to take charge, build, inspire, and create no matter how hard it gets ..

” Remember to be a great leader you must first learn to follow ” 

Nelson Mandela

FOLLOWERS. 

Those who support leaders and work to achieve mutually beneficial goals.These true followers are actually people who help anyone they admire and support grow to their ultimate best . 
DESTROYERS. 

Destroyers ,they are those who can’t find it within themselves to follow anyone, their hatred and insecurity is so pure that blinds them ,so much so that they can’t see strength in any other living creature .They completely lack the ability to inspire or create, so they do the only thing that comes naturally, they tear down all they come in contact with . Even when they succeed to create , they eventually succeed in absolutely destroying what they’ve created and are even proud of it . 

This is fearful to witness ..because it’s a blinding hate that that causes Dementia a gradual mental disability which eventually kills off a destroyer without them even acknowledging it . 


So which category do you fall into ? 

I have been used and dumped so many times .

Yes I have been single since 2007 and believe me the first four years was a horror , I wondered why I wasn’t good enough , i wondered why I loved so hard but yet it was never enough , I wondered why I considered myself last ,I was depressed ,then I said to myself maybe it was because I have sinned and come short of God’s glory by dating a married man, no then I thought maybe it was because I became depressed due to constant emotional battery ,been called fat ,ugly and unattractive then, I got into comfort eating and grew more fat, then I thought maybe I don’t deserve to be happy and everyone knew I was a shameless side chick ,yes I hated myself ..Friends even indirectly laughed at me . Some said if you loose weight you will find a man , some said there’s someone out there who wouldn’t care how I looked. Some called me large in a kind way of cause.. 

It took me four years I got my mojo back , yesss I finally lost all that weight , I look like a picture in a glossy magazine I still do but you know what ? Still nobody loved me , they pretend they care but use and dump me faster than they even lied . Men lied to me ,women lied .

The one I use to think was the love of my life hates me and everything associated with me. Yes that’s my life ! 

Been alone made me realize I have to first learn to love me and believe in me ,yes I finally did and the last few years I have been lonely but happier so

 ” Don’t let society fool you into believing that if you don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend then you’re destined for a life of misery. The Dalai Lama has been single for the last 80 years and he is one of the happiest people on earth. Stop searching for happiness in places outside of yourself, and start finding it where it has always been: within you.” 

Miya Yamanouchi, 

You are not ugly and unlovable because you are single …you just feel like that because you and I are trying to be like the purported picture the world paints on the net instead of finding love within..

Make a change and see how different things would be .

Happiness is within you find it .

Why because self love is the ultimate peace bringer and the greatest gift you can give yourself ! 

The sun is shinning beauty is within you .

#singlewomen #lookingforlove #battered 

Do you love you ?Here’s how to love yourself more.

You can fucking hug and kiss  yourself all day long but it won’t quite make you love yourself better or get your mojo back . 

1.To love yourself you have to first protect yourself from emotional abuse and battery .When you find yourself in a bad situation relationship no matter which kind ,be ready to walk away , having a flipping relationship does not complete who you really are.If you are with an asshole ,leave him, your best friend  is a bitch geez leave her.

2 .Secondly loving yourself also means you will actively be ready to try improving yourself where necessary but do not let anyone make you believe there’s something wrong with you .. Find it yourself ,accept it then make changes …

3.Thirdly if you love yourself , you will surround yourself with people who inspire you to be a better improved you, people who will give you great life advices not people filled with unnecessary drama ..oh no cut the drama kings and queens outta your life they are a volcanic eruption 🌋 and will swallow  you completely.

4. Fourthly, loving yourself also means you must realize you ain’t perfect . So dear stop trying to be perfect you are not YAHWEH (God ) we are only human , and humans make mistakes , you and I will make mistakes , you will even have regrets hey oh yes ..did you smoke pot ? Sleep with the wrong fool ? Married a total undeserving idiot or even dated one , Spent money you don’t have ? Yes it happens, get over it ,start up again you got life ,it simply means you still got hope eh. Oh trying to be perfect 👌 ,it only makes you full of emotional trauma, stress and self loathing..Remember whether male or female you and I are beautifully flawed , forget the ads and magazines they are make believe ,and those perfect people you see get paid to look perfect .

5. Last but not the list , if you truly and completely love yourself , you must realize that smiling is cheap and doesn’t cost money , volunteering a few hours one day a week won’t kill you , being kind to people only makes you look more beautiful/handsome . In essence be good , give back because only people filled with love can give back to others whether they know them or not .Thats the essence of loving yourself , unless you have decided to live your life without self love and always analyzing crap ,then when you grow old ,all you will do is look back and say what in the world 🌎 did I do to myself ? Yes Regrets ! Only fools regret things they can’t change because it’s already too late !. 

There is absolute power in giving back  , spreading love ❤️ doesn’t cost a penny but you have to first be able to love your own self . 

There are so many ways to give back true love,help old people , help your Neighbour cut her grass ,be kind to your siblings ,be kind to whosoever you are blessed to meet.Encourage someone today . 

#empowerment #selflove 

 Today’s inspiration

Nothing in life is worth fighting for. Your best clothes is someone’s rag, your account balance is someone’s donation at a function, your girl friend,boy friend or fiancé,fiancée is someone’s Ex. Every single prostitute you see in a hotel or on the street at night was at some point in time a virgin. So what is the fights and gossips about really ? Life is too short and no matter how bigger and better you feel you are than others ,we will all end up 6 feet under ! One day it will be our turn ! Don’t be a hater , a user or a bragger . Instead let us use our platforms no matter how small or unpopular  to encourage and inspire each other  one person at a time .      

 Wake up don’t be a bench warmer or stalker  be active !
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