You can fucking hug and kiss yourself all day long but it won’t quite make you love yourself better or get your mojo back .
1.To love yourself you have to first protect yourself from emotional abuse and battery .When you find yourself in a bad situation relationship no matter which kind ,be ready to walk away , having a flipping relationship does not complete who you really are.If you are with an asshole ,leave him, your best friend is a bitch geez leave her.
2 .Secondly loving yourself also means you will actively be ready to try improving yourself where necessary but do not let anyone make you believe there’s something wrong with you .. Find it yourself ,accept it then make changes …
3.Thirdly if you love yourself , you will surround yourself with people who inspire you to be a better improved you, people who will give you great life advices not people filled with unnecessary drama ..oh no cut the drama kings and queens outta your life they are a volcanic eruption 🌋 and will swallow you completely.
4. Fourthly, loving yourself also means you must realize you ain’t perfect . So dear stop trying to be perfect you are not YAHWEH (God ) we are only human , and humans make mistakes , you and I will make mistakes , you will even have regrets hey oh yes ..did you smoke pot ? Sleep with the wrong fool ? Married a total undeserving idiot or even dated one , Spent money you don’t have ? Yes it happens, get over it ,start up again you got life ,it simply means you still got hope eh. Oh trying to be perfect 👌 ,it only makes you full of emotional trauma, stress and self loathing..Remember whether male or female you and I are beautifully flawed , forget the ads and magazines they are make believe ,and those perfect people you see get paid to look perfect .
5. Last but not the list , if you truly and completely love yourself , you must realize that smiling is cheap and doesn’t cost money , volunteering a few hours one day a week won’t kill you , being kind to people only makes you look more beautiful/handsome . In essence be good , give back because only people filled with love can give back to others whether they know them or not .Thats the essence of loving yourself , unless you have decided to live your life without self love and always analyzing crap ,then when you grow old ,all you will do is look back and say what in the world 🌎 did I do to myself ? Yes Regrets ! Only fools regret things they can’t change because it’s already too late !.
There is absolute power in giving back , spreading love ❤️ doesn’t cost a penny but you have to first be able to love your own self .
There are so many ways to give back true love,help old people , help your Neighbour cut her grass ,be kind to your siblings ,be kind to whosoever you are blessed to meet.Encourage someone today .